
For the most part, if boyfriend is over, twin is out with a girl, other friends, or in his room. I think I have held twin’s hand in front of bf and sat between them on the couch for scary movie night but that’s about it. I do not cuddle with my twin in front of my boyfriend. Our parents were taken out of the picture when we were very young so we never had their input on the subject either way the person who raised us never said anything, though.Įdit 4: sigh, yes, another. Our other brothers never mentioned it being weird growing up. We don’t generally “spoon” unless we fall asleep cuddling and happen to wake up that way. Is it that weird that we cuddle?Įdit: I’ve been told in PMs to include the following.

So, I want the opinion of unbiased strangers. However, we’ve spoken to some friends and gotten mixed reactions ranging from “wtf” to “must be a twin thing” to “doesn’t seem that weird”. I think it’s gross that my BF is acting jealous of my relationship with my brother. It’s not a secret, and my new boyfriend thinks it’s “extremely weird” to be that close with a sibling.

We live together, too, so we spend a lot of time together (we both go to grad schools in the same city).Īnyway, sometimes we cuddle while hanging out, talking (like if one of us is sad about something, etc.) or watching tv.
